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New movie starring Dakota Fanning. 

As I watched the movie, I realised why Colin's childcare Principal kept giving me big hints about what might discover. They went as far as telling me that they will write me supporting letters should we ever need it for KKH psychiatric review. As much as his tantrums have lessened, the intensity sometimes, did not. Supposedly kids outgrow tantrums as they grow more mature and become more able to control themselves as well as be more able to socialise or negotiate, some of the times when Colin fights with Kiki, his tantrums are highly intense and he couldn't stop. I would hate Kiki for that. She would not give him an ounce of understanding, she keeps biting on facts or fairness. It drives me crazy. I am not asking her to give in to Colin all the time, I am asking her to know when is play and when not to push it further. That boy gets into a frenzy screaming crying spell like pants on fire when his territory is being compromised. and by territory, it could be referring to space or items (toys). The outbursts are sudden, they are like a fire alarm that went off in his head. Not all the time but even if it was once in a while, it is not normal for a six year old. His childcare does not want to give it a label, they gave him the support and hope he finds it in himself to outgrow it. Now that I think it is clearer, I will also be more watchful over him. Hope he gets more expressive with other avenues, writing, colouring, playground time, he likes to walk in his school's garden (he told me that), sometimes I know that he struggled to find the words to express what he was trying to convey, I will be patient and I hope his sister will become more patient too. 

my Gifs story. 

Are you O.K?

You know, my aunts they asked me not to probe about some troubles that my cousin got into. They don't want my inquisitiveness to trigger any blown out temper from my uncle. But my uncle and I text frequently. He sends me quotes about God, almost every day. If I pretend that I've heard nothing, 

doesn't it mean I care nothing?

This stupid culture about "not being nosy" is stupid. We pretend that there's no problem and everything's fine. When clearly it isn't. Is there a taboo about being not fine? Do we always have to be trouble-free?   

Do you know a meaningful, caring-- Are you okay? will mean a lot if you really care to listen?

So, against my aunts' warnings I asked my uncle if my cousin is okay and he replied that he's okay for now and that they're giving him the support at this time.