I saw this post on FB and some Mommies are calling this "Passive-aggressive", and they do not like it. We, on the other hand, being Asians, may be too used to having being treated passive-aggressively till we either find it funny or do not register any offensive feelings, or sometimes we subscribe to the passive-aggressive notion without even questioning, or worse, we feel bad about not doing enough of whatever that is "expected" or suggested. (eg: not being the good parent to be reading to our kids)
So these days, I don't wanna feel bad about myself anymore.
If I am made to feel bad, I would question the source of intention and relevance.
If it were an old issue, I will work on myself to free myself.
If it were a current issue, I will re-check my resources and get creative with self-solutions.
I want to undo any chains on my heart because I deserve to be free.
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